29 May - 16 June 1984

The dilemma caused by the homemaker staying home raises the problems of isolation, loss of status, and little appreciation for the work being done.
This undervalued work of child-raising involved the organization of a household, chores and looking after siblings. Very often a feeling of isolation occurs as contacts with their adults become limited. A homemaker wants time away from parenting or the company of other adults who share same experience. When you’re surrounded by people in the same situation, you eliminate that feeling of isolation. Today, drop-in centers for parents and children provide this service. Parents are usually invited to participate in various activities with their children. This gives the parent the feeling that you’re not alone in this situation. Things seem to make sense.
As a househusband, my feelings have been confused. I began this role, still an untraditional one, with little experience of child-rearing. However, I’ve learned, with the help of my wife and friends, about this world, known mostly by women. I learned about the love of seeing my child growing up and playing an active role in this relationship. I learned about the frustration of being housebound and the loss of status because I wasn’t “working”. I learned about patience in educating a child, the pleasure of hearing a “hello daddy”. I learned about the never-ending jobs that have to be done around the house-cleaning, cooking meals, washing floors, changing diapers and washing them-and the list goes on.
Eventually the idea of sharing my experience as a house husband evolved. Photographing the birth of my daughter became the starting point. I documented the intimate relationship at home as well as my relationship with the outside world and my awareness of the baby market industry.
I hope this show will bring better understanding to prospective househusbands and act as a celebration of work done by homemakers.
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Diary of a househusband consists of 35 black and white photographs, each 11″ by 14″, documenting Pierre Ozorak’s experiences in raising his daughter. The works are installed on blue plastic clothes lines with wooden clothes pins, like diapers drying in the sun.
Pierre Ozorak came to Winnipeg from the Ottawa Valley a few years ago. He had exhibited two shows of photographs previously-the first, in a commercial gallery, of railways, and the second, in the artist-run space, a collection of street photographs. This show is the first, he says, with which he feels confident.
What bothered Ozorak about some photographers’ work was that, although technically good, it didn’t take responsibility for social or political concerns. This show both describes and acts as a celebration of work done by home-makers.
The idea evolved from photographs taken in the birthing room at the time of the delivery of his daughter, Simone. Six of these form the introduction show. The artist entered the role of househusband with little experience of child-raising, a world still known mostly by women. He experienced the problems of being housebound, loss of status because he wasn’t “working”, the lack of adult company and he never-ending housework.
In the photographs, intimacy, emotion and gentle humour in juxtaposition of images are evident. Hands figure prominently-manipulating household objects, holding the child, and in one photograph, outstretched as if in blessing. The market for baby products is obvious-Pablum, jars and jars of mashed baby food-a pregnant woman chatting beside a store-window filled with multiples of Pampers boxes.
The photographer is talking about the activities of child-rearing; in these works, its joy, too, is certainly there
- Helen K. Wright, Coordinator
Posted 05/1984